Imbalance in Families

Assalamualaikum,

Hope you guys are healthy In syaa Allah.
Sorry for the late of posting cause I'm busy now with school. Nonetheless, I still post things.

Nowadays,
we will hear various issues about parents or something family-related. Untill murders occur every single day around the world. (Thunderstorm strikes) No matter between parents and children or husband and wife or even siblings. Everything that's bizarre (suppose to be) is commonly happen everytime. But a harmony country starts from harmony family.

So, how could these happen? Why do everyone doesn't learn anything? But that doesn't stop there, even the unseen issues like parents force their children to take this and that although their children is good in the other subject that they like.

Many 'weird' issues became normal......? Why!? (Errrmmm)

Remember, often a problem a person faces comes from himself especially in families.

Because of misunderstanding and missing of love of family among them. And by love, I mean, if we love someone, we must be giving the best for them despite sometimes it hurts.

But over loving and tolerance can give the opposite side. We need the balance in life. (Ooooh)
Imagine this, you will either eat just a spoon of noodles, a bowl of it or 20 bowls of it (And you're hungry). Which of these satisties you while you can finish them?
It must be a bowl of noodles. You can finish it whereas it satisfies you.

We don't give them love so much untill we became their servant.
And we don't force them so much untill it ruins their life.
We must pick the moderate path.

Just like what Islam teach us to be moderate in everything and do the right things in the right time.
In surah Ar-Rahman, verses 7-9,

And the heaven He raised and imposed the balance

That you not transgress within the balance.

And establish weight in justice and do not make deficient the balance.

(Sahih International)

BE JUSTICE!!!

Indeed, we faced the childhood in the past but our Prophet SallahuAlaihiWasallam gave the best way of tarbiah to youngsters which is love.....
We must 'touch' their hearts NOT their bodies. Then, they'll understand

So, why not?
Let's change our lives to better!!!!

Assalamualaikum....